Archive for July, 2010

It’s common knowledge that compiling a list of contacts is essential to a successful job hunt. But not everyone knows how to nurture a network. There’s good reason: It’s more about giving than receiving. That’s the main message of John Maxwell’s new book, Everyone Communicates, Few Connect: What the Most Effective People Do Differently. A leadership specialist, Maxwell defines connecting as “the ability to identify with people and relate to them in a way that increases your influence….”

Many people believe that those among us who possess charisma were born that way, that they reel others in with their good looks or wily charms. But what’s really essential, Maxwell says – and can be developed by anyone – is an outward focus. Connecting has to be “intentional,” and requires time and energy. “Most of the time, people won’t give it the energy,” he says.

People like people who like them. If you can learn how to identify what is special in others and express your appreciation of it, you’ll have developed a useful skill. “Most people are waiting for someone to make their day,” Maxwell says.

One of the first steps in forging a connection is figuring out what you already share with a new contact. Doing research before your first meeting can reveal common interests or experiences. “At the beginning, interest is piqued by what we have in common,” Maxwell explains.

Once interest is aroused, you can forge a deeper connection by identifying some way your new contact is more skilled or experienced than you are. When you inquire about a trait you admire, “it engages the other person,” Maxwell says. Once engaged, your contact is often willing to help you out. If you ask for something specific – such as referral s to your contact’s friend who works at a place you’d like to apply – she will likely oblige.

As always, the nonverbal aspects of your interactions are key. “People won’t remember what you said or did, but how you made them feel,” Maxwell says. So when you seek to expand your network, keep Dirty Harry’s famous line in mind.

Milwaukee is a leader in the national brouhaha over paid sick days. In a recent survey, The National Opinion Research Center (NORC) found that 86 percent of US citizens favor legislation that would guarantee up to seven paid sick days a year. Milwaukee voters were ahead of the game, approving a referendum requiring paid sick days at the end of last year, making the Midwestern city third only to San Francisco and Washington, D.C. which already have legislation in place.

Milwaukee’s ordinance is being challenged. Detractors say that businesses may not be able to handle the costs, which could result in an abundance of lay-offs or cuts in benefits and salary.

But paid sick days may be more important to maintaining a productive workforce than one would think. According to the NORC, of those who were not receiving paid sick days, 55 percent said “they had at some point gone to work with a contagious illness like the flu or a viral infection” and 24 percent said “they had sent a sick child to school or day care because they had to go to work.” Is that strategy really less costly?

Good news! People may be better than we think. Panera Bread has developed new non-profit locations where customers donate what they wish for a meal whether it be $20 more than the suggested price or nothing at all. And, believe it or not, not everyone takes a free meal. According to Panera’s chairman, Ronald Shaich, about 60-70 % of customers pay the full price while only about 15% pay less or nothing at all. In fact, about 15% were actually leaving more money and, as Shaigh put it, “living up to our best sense of humanity.” Read more about it at: http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/food/2010-05-18-panerabread18_ST_N.htm

Are you having trouble staying motivated in your career search?

According to Julie Jansen, author of I don’t Know What I Want, But I Know It’s Not This: A Step-By-Step Guide to Finding Gratifying Work, “Setting very specific activity goals during every phase of your search for satisfying work is a must, even for the introspective and soul-searching phase. Goals represent your purpose and the outcome you wish to achieve.”

She suggests you do the following:

1.        Feel passionate about your goals and the career you wish to have.

2.        Partner with someone who is going through a similar situation at work to search for a new career.
3.        Keep your energy level high to maintain a high level of motivation by staying healthy.